IAmADamnGoodFather

As with most things in life it's multi faceted. She has some major control issues and I think the thought of not being in complete control of the girls in a split custody situation is terrifying to her. I also suspect she herself was abused in her childhood. You combine that with the know how and the thinking I would just cave in and give up and you have my case.

Thank for the congrats. Unfortunately, I still have a closed domestic violence cases sitting out in public record but i've got my girls back

I've thought seriously about it that's for sure and spoken to my attorney. This thing only recently got finished too, the first priority was getting my girls back. There were also several institutions up here who broke a ton of ethic codes due to her being involved in the psychology field. A malpractice suit might be in my future as well.

The accusations were based on something one of my daughters supposedly said in the store "spontaneously" while shopping in front of my ex and her friend. My daughters are very smart and have incredible vocabularies for their age. Given that and what looks like some coaching from my ex wife, a trained psychologist, you have a shit storm.

:) The case occured through their birthday. I lost their 3's and early 4's

Yep. Making the case will take time and money and my sainted girlfriend and I have been building evidence under the guidance of my attorney. She is also really really good on the stand and perfectly willing to lie under oath. I would need to get a good stack going in other words.

For now, I record every conversation with her that's not in text or email and always always take the adult side. The last thing any judge wants is to see the legal system being used for vengeance with kids as the leverage.