The-Cake

Put yourself in her shoes. Would you want your significant other to dump you and not tell you, just in order to the 'honorable thing'?

I am assuming you had been together for some time and were/are in love. You should hold onto the people you love, no matter what. The same goes for her. Get her back.

I have no idea what it is like to be in your position. Not a clue. But I know what it is like to be in love (cliché warning). Don't give that up. If she loves you, there is a good chance she wants to stick it out with you. Maybe even do crazy stuff with you. You have a chance of being remembered as a great person by her.

I upvoted every single comment you had written. I know reddit karma doesn't mean anything, but it's all i got.

Godspeed. I wish you all the best and please permit yourself to be happy. Don't go though this alone. Get her back.

I also have to be brutally honest with you. When it is your time to go, in pain, you probably won't by thinking how nice of you it was to leave her. You will hate yourself for it. This is life, this is it. It's all we get.

I think you are making it far worse for her.

When you die, she will feel guilty for not staying with you, for not trying harder to find out what was wrong, to just leave you......with cancer. Probably very similar as with suicide, except she could help you and make you happier.

If you live on with her, she will gain a huge life experience and mature. She will love you and she will grief you.

Getting pregnant in early thirties is the prime time. Life isn't a hollywood production.

Go and get her. Before it is too late.

And she will just as likely find somebody else after you are gone. Sure, it might take some time to grief. But you say you love her, then she probably loves you too. And she will then grief you regardless of wherever you broke up with her or not. Maybe she might even feel betrayed because you broke up with her, instead of allowing her to spend the final years with you.

I don't want to come off as a douchebag, but you might be making a decision for her. I'm not a situation to tell though.

We all have a certain right to be selfish. Because at the end of the day, nobody is there to take care of your feelings or your happiness other then yourself.

She won't hate you for having cancer. She might hate you for breaking up with her. Be as happy as you possibly can - you might regret it yourself if you don't.