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athey58 karma

I'm probably way too late, but just in case you comeback to check more questions later - The other day when picking my husband up from the airport, with my two kids, age 8 and 5, there were a pair of ladies at the baggage claim who were dwarfs. My son, being 5, points and makes some comment about 'whoa! They're small' or something. I went to explain dwarfism as much as I thought a 5yr old could grasp, but my husband just cut in and hushed him, telling him basically not to point or say anything.

How would you (or anyone else with Dwarfism, reading this) actually prefer something like this be handled?

I feel like the whole 'don't point and stare, and be quiet' route just leaves the impression that there's something 'wrong' or 'off' and I don't want that.

Just wonder what insight you have into how you think introducing a young child to the idea of dwarfism could best be done?

Thanks!

athey8 karma

Huge fan of yours. When it first dawned on my that your were Baines from Doctor Who (those were my Fav Dr episodes with Martha as the companion, and you were super memorable), Viserys from GoT, Will from Robin Hood, and then I watched Manhatten and you were there too, it was crazy and awesome they were all the same actor! I never get to go to movies these days thanks to kids, but I can't wait till I finally manage to see Theory of Everything.

In Manhattan, I know the characters are all fictional, but are somewhat inspired by various scientists from the day. I saw a behind the scenes video where they interviewed some people who had actually lived at the compound at the time. Did you and the other actors get to meet / talk with any people with personal experience of Los Alamos?

athey3 karma

Everyone's experiences are different and different schools have different cultures. My son's biggest stress is bullies. He's miserable and hates everything about school with a passion because the kids are awful and he has crappy social skills. My daughter is 2 years older and on her last year of middle school. She hasn't had any problem with bullies, but still stresses over the social stuff a lot.