bloodymay

what would you say to a young man/woman raising consciousness of being attracted by children?

I'm counting the times it was said to me "he was just a boy". I remember every single one. so, i think your statement is an important one.

hypotetically speaking (I don't know if this make sense) how do you think your life would have been if your mother wouldn't call the police... and just yell at you, maybe beat you and force to say sorry to your niece and your niece's parents and swear to not do it again? would it had stopped you?(as jail i guess did?)

thank you for this AMA. I'm reading your story and it's significant and intimate, so thanks for sharing.

I was abused by my brother when i was about 6 (i'm 30 now). During my path through therapy (age 24 to 29) i met other girls with the same back story. None of the brothers has ever being charged of anything and we were "forced" to cope. In my case, for my family "the thing" simply never happened, and nor my mother or father ever talked to me about it. They don't even know why i went into psycotherapy.

I think the lack of legitimacy and communication was the worst part. So thank you again for talking about that.

so you and your niece where both very young...

how long have you been in jail? where you selfcontious of being paedo when you where 15?