Good luck with life. But just remember, we are all dying :) That's what life is about, dying.
I have a friend who is in similar situation as you: Mid-twenties, oral cancer the past two years and after what I know, he's terminal. He was diagnosed the third time this summer and according to the information I have about it (my mom is dentist, she has connections and knowledge) the recommended treatment is just bunch of painkillers.
I understand why you want to have this year or two (if you're so lucky) just to have friends and family which act normal. I know my friend, has lost so much, even though he isn't dead yet. Friends don't talk to him in the same way, don't treat him the same way. It has had huge impact on his family and I know that his little brother is coping especially bad about it. He has pretty much given up all contact with his friends, including me, and the only person he really focuses on is his awesome girlfriend who supports him no matter what.
But I just want to say: You're not selfish, you actually care about those around you. I seriously encourage you to spend the time you can with your family and friends, and let them know when you know it's time to say goodbye. Please, take a week and celebrate your life with your beloved ones and say goodbye with style :)
Ok, enough ranting from my side, I've not really any questions. Just wanted to give you my support.
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Good luck with life. But just remember, we are all dying :) That's what life is about, dying.
I have a friend who is in similar situation as you: Mid-twenties, oral cancer the past two years and after what I know, he's terminal. He was diagnosed the third time this summer and according to the information I have about it (my mom is dentist, she has connections and knowledge) the recommended treatment is just bunch of painkillers.
I understand why you want to have this year or two (if you're so lucky) just to have friends and family which act normal. I know my friend, has lost so much, even though he isn't dead yet. Friends don't talk to him in the same way, don't treat him the same way. It has had huge impact on his family and I know that his little brother is coping especially bad about it. He has pretty much given up all contact with his friends, including me, and the only person he really focuses on is his awesome girlfriend who supports him no matter what.
But I just want to say: You're not selfish, you actually care about those around you. I seriously encourage you to spend the time you can with your family and friends, and let them know when you know it's time to say goodbye. Please, take a week and celebrate your life with your beloved ones and say goodbye with style :)
Ok, enough ranting from my side, I've not really any questions. Just wanted to give you my support.
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