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Alright, I have something to add. (FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF A MINOR)

Everyone seems to be reading between the lines and assuming he is some freak child loving pedophile. This is shocking to me. As a minor myself, just reading through the comments I can see that the guy was on some sort of depressive porn addictive bender. Much like how sometimes when fapping you start with a normal video and then before you know it you have some weird ass bdsm video about cuckold pulled up and afterwards you are like, "holy fucking hell. I fapped to that?"

Look, I'm not justifying what he did. And he deserves to serve the time for what he did, but all you fucks making statements at his motives and saying he is obviously some extreme pedophile is excessively ignorant.

All the negativity and doubt and hatred coming from you all is just how pedophilia is perpetuated. There may be many people who fall into something similar to what happened to OP's husband and yet we ostracize them and jump to conclusions, and they feel like they are diseased/no way out; so, they regress into there addiction and things get worse.

Once again, I'm NOT at all condoning his crimes and justifying.

I AM saying that y'all should probably read what she is actually saying, and perhaps try to empathize with the situation.

People stay with murderers all the time, and no one says shit. But when some depressed guy turns to porn and gets in over his head and his wife stays with him, people flip the fuck out? Wow. Am I missing something? I cannot imagine the pain of those kids who are abused in CP, but I can also cannot imagine the pain of being murdered. Yet, you all seem much MUCH more condemning of this man, who seems to have just fallen in over his head and from what OP has stated; he is an otherwise ordinary, good person.

/rant

TL;DR: Empathy. Feel it. Please. Sincerely, a minor.

People can be stuck in their opinions. I totally understand why you take that approach.

You're not on here to defend your husband from judgement. You came to answer questions, and you're doing a great job I might add. I just felt a little to perturbed by people jumping on the judgement bandwagon and just had to say something.

I really hope everything works out for you and your husband. If you are ever think that no one understands or that you suddenly find yourself being alone in your support for him, rest assured that you have some jackass american teenager who truly believes in you and your husband.

Take care OP, I really mean that.

I do not disagree at all. Infact I very much agree.