krystalbc87

Former repo agent in Texas here. I've been shot at once and had one woman try to stab me while attempting to repo her car.

I'm a lady so I imagine I got a lot less shit that the guys do. As assbackwards and trigger happy as people are here, I had many more decent experiences than bad. In Texas, if you're hooked up there isn't a damn thing you can do about it, your ass is mine. If you shoot, you're going to jail. The legal justification behind this is that debtors are required to be notified in some manner before being put out for repo.

If you shoot before we're hooked up, it can get messy. Repo agents are often packing and have a CCL. At that point the agent can open fire to protect themselves but it doesn't usually happen. The one time I got "shot at" it was a warning shot from a 12g pump shotgun. The guy shot straight up in the air and said to get off his property. My stupid adrenaline filled ass marched up to his doorstep, told him to drop his weapon, and wait spread eagle on the ground until the cops arrived. He listened. Never doing that again. I nearly got fired for putting myself in harms way.

That makes me feel strangely good haha. But seriously if you're going to pull a gun, don't fucking fire a warning shot. That shows intent. You can get into a whole helluva lot of trouble if someone ends up hurt or dead. Also, if you have to pull your weapon, we're past the point of negotiation. I'm going to shoot to kill.

Hey Jason! Just wanted to say I'm a big fan and I loved you in Zach and Miri.

I was in a very similar situation with my ex. My ex-husband went through some pretty messed up stuff as a child and never really dealt with it. The sex while we were dating was amazing but as soon as we got married it essentially stopped. He wouldn't look at me, we stopped communicating, started fighting all of the time. It was bad. Sex became harder and harder for him until it just stopped. As a woman on the same side I understand how heartbreaking and frustrating it all is. Our relationship ended in divorce in a quickness. Even had we been able to fix the issues completely there was far too much damage done to repair what we had. Best of luck to you.