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Ok I will only justify staying with him once, so I'll try to make it good. We have been together for 14 years, married for 6. He is my life partner and I want to stick with him no matter what. With that said it was a hard decision to stay with him it took extensive therapy and many many heart to heart talks to reach this conclusion. Bottom line I love him, there are so many aspects to his personality that make him who he is he is more than his crime.

OH YES!

He got depressed. Like stopped bathing, didnt want to get out of bed depressed. His internet usage increased and he was more private about it. He stopped wanting to do things he enjoyed. And right before he got caught it was getting so bad that he'd rather masturbate than have sex. This is a good time to point out that he looked at all kinds of porn not just CP. Not by a long shot.

Wow thanks for this. I have a hard time conveying these thoughts. He did get way over his head for about 3 months. He certainly did the crime and knew what he was doing but to make the assumption that he is an uncontrollable pedophile is a huge leap. I don't want to spend too much time here try to convince others that he is not a pedophile, that I've found is useless.

No we do not have kids, we never planned on having children.

Shock value I think, possibly to feel out whether or not I knew the content was there.