stillhopefulmom

Thank you. I will definitely let him know your advice. I think he's trying to stick to himself but there are all these gangs...he isn't part of them but they try to pull him in. It's so hard. And thank you THANK you THANK YOU for the subreddit you and your wife made. It's been such a help for my son and for me and I'm sure many others.

This is what I fear the most for my son. He's already done "the hole" once and it was NOT justified. Do you have any advice for him about how to walk the line between not being a wimp and not being a troublemaker?

Did you ever do solitary confinement? Was it warranted or unfairly assigned?

You spent almost a YEAR in the hole? OMG! I am so sorry for you. My son spent a week and it was horrible. I cannot imagine a year. You have amazing strength.

amen to that