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Peter Acworth! I can't explain how excited I am about this. But I'll try!

I'm a female submissive who stumbled upon kink.com years ago when I was still trying to understand my sexuality. To this day it is the only pornography site I've ever made an account with, and it's the only porn I've ever paid for. And, while yes, the porn is amazing to watch and get off to...I never would have watched more than one clip if I hadn't found BehindKink. Honestly, there is a lot of BDSM and kink porn out there that I can't enjoy because I find myself questioning whether or not the people involved are fully consenting and fully aware of their situation. But kink.com goes above and beyond - not only to show your audience what that the actors are genuine and safe, but also promoting sex positive and kink-aware information at no cost to your patrons (rope tying how-to's, disability friendly bondage, and it's thanks to BehindKink that I know what part of an ass is safe to slap!)

Seriously, discovering that you're into BDSM can be really scary and intimidating, but your company let me explore it when I was still too nervous to ask for it in real life, and to do so without a hint of guilt or shame. And after all these years watchin kink.com, I'm still short on questions to ask. But I do have a few.

http://youtu.be/XRluUWnfIsI <---This (SFW). How much fun was it to do this??? I mean, working with Margaret Cho alone must have been full of laughs, but seriously every face in this video appears to be having the absolute time of their life. And it's such a great video and song to boot.

Also, in the past the Armory has gotten a LOT of heat from different conservative groups over the years. When you guys moved in there was an issue, and I remember reading several painful articles about how you were clearly brainwashing/abusing/manipulating the female actors (ignoring of course that kink produces several male-submissive sites but hey, anything to keep stereotyping!). My question about this is, have any of those accusations and harassments ever led to legal action being taken by either party? If so, how did it conclude?

One last question, over the years, have you noticed more women coming into the business for non-acting positions (or even transitioning from one to the other? It seems that way from the outside, but it could just be me seeing what I want to see!

Thank you so much for doing this AMA, really. Have the best day!

edited for some errors.

Aww I really appreciate you taking the time to answer more of my questions. You rule, thanks =)

Also, it blows my mind how some people call themselves feminists and then try to dictate what women can and cannot do with their own bodies.

I'm so glad I saw this post, I will follow your blog immediately! So hysterical!

I blog about my own chronic illness adventures and I have to agree, humor and positivity trump everything else by far, and you have a way with both that is just lovely! I'm so excited to start following your posts. Thanks for sharing!

I once heard a youtuber (can't remember who at the moment) make an observation about the connection between yourself and Dustin Hoffman. You both have famous cross-dressing characters in your careers with opposite plots (you cross-dress for a romance, and wind up with a job; he cross-dresses for a job, and winds up in a romance). This sets you both up as perfect adversaries in Hook.

It's a dream of mine that Dustin and you planned your careers to work out that way.

To add to what Peter said, Dominants need aftercare just as much as submissives do, for exactly the reasons you're proposing. Very few people can literally turn it on and off in an instant. Aftercare is different for everyone, but it helps to transition us from our sexual personality back to our daily life personality.