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How does one choose a therapist? You all have so many different specialties and degrees and styles, it feels like we need to be an expert just to choose who to see. It takes so much mental and physical effort to “start over” with a new therapist (not to mention they always say it takes time, how much time to we give before we know if it’s a good fit?), how can someone who isn’t sure what they need supposed to choose?

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Have you ever watched old Arrested Development episodes and caught jokes that you delivered, but missed the first time??

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Hey JG! Thank you for giving the little voice in our head such a wonderful face.

Whats the secret to tour life? How do you maintain sanity on the road?

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Life’s hard. Work is a rollercoaster of ups and downs, so are relationships. Some days it’s really hard to get out of bed, other days it’s fine. There isn’t always an easy box to check for why we need help, and so it makes it hard to pin down. Usually when I decide to reach out to a therapist it’s at a very low point, so making multiple phone calls and being turned down for insurance/price/schedule really takes a toll and discourages more effort. I eventually found a therapist on one of those apps, but after a couple months I don’t know if this is the help I need or not. It’s nice talking to this therapist on our weekly zoom calls, but I don’t know what progress is supposed to look like.

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Between you, Robert Chen, Frank Huang, Malcom Lowe, and Martin Chalifour, who is most likely to win a “Devil Went Down To Georgia” style fiddle competition? Who would win in golf? Who would win in a battle royale?