This is a facet of his sexual make up, he can no more help it than can a gay guy explain why he's gay. Put into perspective, he did wrong, but to castigate a mans life for eternity for the mistake, is wrong also.
If he could flick a switch in his head, and make the need, the urge go away, he would have.
But (and yes I have experience of this) can he do? Go to the doctors? Speak to his best friend? It is wrong, and I do not condone his actions, but until society sees it as something that the guy cannot help, nor understand, nor openly ask for assistance with - what's he to do? He can't come out, he can't speak to people for fear of the reaction.
This builds up, and builds up. Don't get me wrong, I used to view it, and got busted, and I'll never do it again, but trust me, if I could have openly asked for help when I realised the path I was heading down, I'd have taken it.
throwawayguy2133 karma
This is a facet of his sexual make up, he can no more help it than can a gay guy explain why he's gay. Put into perspective, he did wrong, but to castigate a mans life for eternity for the mistake, is wrong also.
If he could flick a switch in his head, and make the need, the urge go away, he would have.
But (and yes I have experience of this) can he do? Go to the doctors? Speak to his best friend? It is wrong, and I do not condone his actions, but until society sees it as something that the guy cannot help, nor understand, nor openly ask for assistance with - what's he to do? He can't come out, he can't speak to people for fear of the reaction.
This builds up, and builds up. Don't get me wrong, I used to view it, and got busted, and I'll never do it again, but trust me, if I could have openly asked for help when I realised the path I was heading down, I'd have taken it.
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