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You could've done a slightly worse job. That would've been just fine, along with being a lot less emotionally scarring.

Literally the first time I've understood anything in an AMA related to quantum computing.

For the burden thing, try not to let it be a massive factor. Think about what you'd be willing to do in their shoes. Sometimes your loved ones would like to shoulder the burden for you.

That's easier said than done.

I am now very very angry.

Yeah, but you can always find an excuse not to try to hire a hitman. Sometimes you just have to say "Enough procrastination."