BJene

Do you have a theory of what're causing the bites if not spiders?

Murderkeg

their male friends are usually trying to give solutions rather than be emotionally present.

This is interesting, isn't offering solutions a way of being emotionally present? You are recognizing their fears/problems as valid, and offering to help them.

This implies that none of the data supporting the wage gap compares apples to apples, that is, the same job, same qualifications, same time investment, and yet different pay between men and women. Is that the case?

Edit: Not trying to be confrontational, I legitimately don't know.

Science is incredible.