MrMushyagi

Different words.

Hoe = tool

Ho = a ho fo sho

Lots of people that use dating apps don't like to share their phone number until having met in person to confirm the other person isn't crazy.

In my experience, it usually would go:

Chat a bit via the app

Meetup for happy hour drinks

If theres a connection, exchange numbers and plan date #2

Theres not much reason to bother trying to explain the big experience imo.

To the outsider, it can sound like the ravings of a lunatic.

To someone who has experienced it, it's just like "yeah, duh"

Edit: also, presumably he does explain it in the book...would take a lot of words to try to explain the experience

The clue was

"this term for a long handled gardening tool..."

Ken's response didn't count because hoe and ho are two different terms. If the category were homonyms, sure, but this was about one term with two meanings.

One of the first things Wikipedia mentions is that it's an easy target due to relatively slow speeds and altitude.

In traditional combat yes.

In asymmetric warfare like the US has been engaged in more recently, not so much.