Sharktogator

Wait. Someone jerked you off while in coma? Who? And what kind of insurance do you have?

It's interesting since you were probably unable to consent to anything at the time? I'm assuming you were fine with it in the case of your girlfriend? Probably beats the entire looking at the ceiling thing but still a strange situation to be in.

No. Books, Online resources and communities are fine for learning. I've never done a guided tour or been in a mycological club but I'd still say I'm pretty decent with mushroom identification. It's easier if you have someone to teach you of course, but don't let that hold you back. It's fun but it takes time and practice. Check out our sub /r/mycology if you want.