didsomebodysaymyname

angry about all kinds of things, from fluorescent light bulbs to the unpainted walls

I totally understand this feeling actually.

The difference is I realized that my problem was not an unpainted wall, it was that I had emotional/anger problems and a distorted world view.

It seems like the term "hospice" is a big issue for your communication with families and just about everyone else.

Have you considered using a different term?