diesiraeSadness

I do research on suicide. What motivated you to keep going - to not commit suicide - despite the intense suffering and cruelty you experienced?

Can porn ever be entirely ethical given that coercion can be hidden even from the producers (like a pimp or boyfriend working behind the scenes to force their partner to do a scene)? It seems like sex workers will end up admitting that they never fully consented (perhaps due to drug issues, having a family to support, a pimp, abusive partner, etc). It seems like it would impossible to check for that. When sex is the product being sold, sex abuse will run rampant. The idea of ethical porn seems dubious to me. Do you have a response?

Full disclosure: am an ex sex worker and worked with many sex workers. My experience is that the seedy underbelly of sex work can’t be entirely avoided even with the best conditions in place.

How do you deal with the emotional pain of seeing dogs being abandoned/returned by owners who didn’t realize how difficult training a dog would be? How do you deal with the reality that not all dogs will be taken? If you don’t euthanize, what happens to dogs that get too old/sick?

Are sex toys focused on the clit too intense for you? Do you find that orgasms are easier for you to have (let’s say it takes a woman 10 mins to get off on average)? How noticeable is the second clit? Do you have two hoods? Or are they just next to each other?

Who is creating the misinformation chat bots?