kimjester

I lose sexual interest in all of my partners eventually. How do people continue to be sexually interested in each other once the initial spark has gone?

It seems to be that the thrill of 'feeling dirty' goes away as I get to know the person. I know they love me and care about me and, in time, they see me without make up/at my worst. It makes me find it hard to feel sexy anymore. Life isn't like a porn film anymore!..even though I know they want me, I don't want them and I don't feel hot. I end up fantasizing about sex with men who see me as attractive as i can be ....does this make any sense?